CHALLENGING
YOUR THOUGHTS
"I have now taken the steps advised and live a much healthier and happier life" - Patrick Ellameh
GETTING YOUR
MIND RIGHT
"I spent 24 years trying different traditional therapists and it was not working" - Graziella Jeffery
WITH XTLC
"Everyone needs an Xavier in their life" - Asia Sharif
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MEET THE COACH

Hi, My name is Xavier,

At the tender age of 13, I remember telling my father “I want to be a psychologist” His reply to me was “that is too big for you!” After having my dreams crushed, I decided to pursue a career in electronic engineering and from there an extensive career in the music and entertainment industry.

Fast forward to September 11th, 2018, which signalled the next phase of my life. Whilst on Instagram I created a poll asking If you had a problem and needed to speak to someone. Would you rather speak to family and friends or a stranger? to my surprise 74% responded with a stranger from that moment XTLC was born.

Thirty-five years after my 13 year old self-confessed to my father, I finally got to indulge my passion and purpose for helping people into getting their mind right, by simply challenging their thoughts but not as a physiologist as a life-coach.

In just two years of XTLC I have helped several hundred paying clients, as well as, thousands of Instagram followers with my FREE daily stories. I cannot help everyone but I just might be able to help you!

With love and light
Xavier The Life Coach.

Tom Stubbings

 

We first started talking in October  2018 And what I say is the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth! Xav instigated the saving of my marriage!!! 100% no messing!!!!  Xav is unbelievable, I have recommended him to many and continue to do so!

I cannot sing Xavs praises enough and I will be forever indebted to him. Although I know he will completely disagree.
I will never as long as I breathe forget that

Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️

Not many words can express my opinion!

Emma Campbell

 

Xavier is just an AMAZING individual and natural Life Coach. This was the best decision which I made for myself; focusing on investing in me and having sessions with this incredible Life Coach. I would highly recommend Xavier to anyone who would like to enhance and improve their life. Just be ready to go on the XTLC journey of a lifetime! 

Xavier is just an AMAZING individual and natural Life Coach

Joe Slater

 

Just wanted to check in with you it’s been 6 weeks since our last chat,  guess what life’s absolutely amazing, absolutely everything is clicking in to place money’s chasing me and that vision board is getting full and had the opportunity to remove two things off it, the wife and my family are seeing someone who’s always got a smile on my face now whenever there in my company and not consumed with work.

everything is clicking in to place money’s chasing me

Campbell Mclean

 

Hello, Xav it’s your Scottish mate with the two-second names lol where do I start here...firstly I recommended your Instagram page and secondly lucky enough to have your time and knowledge personally throw facetime as covoid19 was in full swing! Great vibes and clicked straight away and never felt judged which really helped as this was my first-time opening-up. I can’t thank you enough also had me laughing as well as learning on the facetime there’s not many like yourself Xav.

Got to the bottom of the issues

Graziella Jeffery

 

Xavier has been the best thing for me in 2020 so far. I have always had ups and downs and struggled in life very quickly. I spent 24 years trying different traditional therapists and it was not working.  He changed my outlook and perspective on things challenging the way I think in 3 months. I don’t spiral anymore and I am so so much happier, which affects everyone around me. I cannot recommend Xavier enough.

I spent 24 years trying different traditional therapists and it was not working

Patrick Ellameh

 

First of all, I’d love to thank Xavier for changing my perspective on the way I think about life and the opportunities I’m given on a daily basis. Changing the perspective of the way you think and shifting the negatives into the positives have never been so easier after my first video call. I would definitely recommend XTLC to anyone who may be struggling/unsure what to do, or anyone who feels like they need to talk open-minded to an individual, Xavier is the right person for you!

I have now taken the steps advised and live a much healthier and happier life

Ashley Roberts

 

I was able to trust Xav, fully. I felt comfortable in telling/venting to Xav knowing he would be honest, he would get me thinking from a different perspective. If I was to find myself in a situation, or needed to discuss areas of my life, it would be Xav that I would feel most comfortable talking to before anyone else, before my family and closest friends. You don’t have to have mental health issues, but you should be able to talk when you need it most, after all, life is a rollercoaster.

I was new and skeptical to having a life coach

Shirley Torres

From the very 1st session Xavi helped me change not only my mindset but my whole life.
Thanks to him and his wise words I started believing in myself again.
Thanks to him I took the courage to leave the company I used to work for and start chasing my dream!
Thanks to him I gained peace and freedom in my life and gained a better understanding about the meaning of success.
Thanks to him I’m living a beautiful life full of love, peace and abundance.
I will forever be thankful.

Don’t think words can really express what you did for me 🥺
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
From the very 1st session Xavi helped me change not only my mindset but my whole life

Zoe Upson

If you can give yourself one gift in life it would be to have one session with Xav. Once you have one session, you will most likely need more, but it will start you on the path to becoming the best version of yourself.

The difference in me is night and day. After three years (although I’ll always have work to do), I am at peace, spiritually aligned, earning more than ever before and wake up grateful daily. When I first called Xav, I was crying down the phone about a job I hated, a relationship that was highly toxic and life issues I addressed in a rather emotionally hectic way. Now I've done the work with Xav, when "life" happens, I handle it all in such a healthy calm way. It’s like magic.

Becoming the best version of yourself comes with hard work, finding your true self and self-love. It’s hard but with Xav’s guidance, your life will be so incredible. I can’t explain how much. It’s like a light goes on, a switch is flicked and you will never look back.

If you can give yourself one gift in life it would be to have one session with Xav

UPGRADE YOUR LIFE TODAY

ASTOUNDING

LIFE-CHANGING
RESULTS

  • Positive changes that last
  • Techniques to change habits
  • Increased focus and self-awareness
  • Enhanced health and brain development
  • Become accountable in all areas in your life
  • Deep understanding of how your mind functions

START MAKING CHANGES TODAY

Free Life Coaching

Every day I offer free life coaching nuggets via my Instagram (@XavierTheLifeCoach).
These insights are all based on what I’ve experienced, studied, and researched throughout my life.

Allow me to connect with your mind to instigate self-awareness and accountability so you can regain control over your life.

Start your free life coaching today by following my Instagram.

Let the journey begin.

"I Got You Man"

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